Helping Kids Cope with Divorce During the Holidays: Attorney Insights
The holiday season is often filled with anticipation and joy, but for families experiencing divorce or shared custody, it can also bring unique challenges. As an attorney and someone who has personally navigated these transitions, I understand how important it is to put children’s wellbeing first. At N.P. Weiss Law, our goal is to help families create positive holiday memories by focusing on what matters most: the children.
In this video, Attorney Nick Weiss shares real-world insights on helping kids cope with divorce during the holidays, drawing on both legal experience and personal perspective.
Putting Children First: The Heart of Holiday Co-Parenting
When the holidays approach, it’s easy for parents to get caught up in schedules, time quotas, and the logistics of exchanges. However, the most meaningful holidays for children are those where their emotional needs are prioritized over rigid routines. As a parent or co-parent, it’s essential to step back from disputes and focus on making the time you have with your children special—regardless of whose year it is for holiday parenting time.
Children remember the holidays for the warmth and peace they experience, not for the details of the schedule. Even when there are disagreements or things to fight about, keeping the focus on your child’s experience will help them build positive memories that last.
Early Planning & Clear Communication
One of the best ways to reduce stress during the holidays is to plan ahead. Using shared calendars and communicating expectations early can help minimize confusion and anxiety for both parents and children. Setting clear plans before the holidays begin allows everyone to know what to expect and helps avoid last-minute surprises.
For more ways to keep things simple and positive during the holidays, I recommend Attorney Gianna Colucci’s article on communicating with your ex and Attorney Eric Cherry’s shared custody holiday tips.
Respecting Traditions & Embracing New Routines
Family rituals matter, but flexibility is key. Kids benefit from consistency, but they also love making new memories in both homes. Think about what traditions you want your kids to remember, and don’t be afraid to start new ones.
Child-Focused Messaging
How you talk about holiday plans matters. Keep conversations positive and centered on your child’s experience. Encourage your child to enjoy time with both parents, and avoid negative comments about the other parent. This helps your kids feel secure and supported.
Handling Holiday Hiccups
Things will go wrong—delays, changes, or breakdowns happen. Take it with grace. Document any issues calmly, and don’t let minor disputes overshadow your child’s holiday. If problems keep happening, bring them to the other parent’s attention and keep a record in case legal action is needed later. But right now, focus on making sure your kids have a good holiday.
When to Consult Counsel
If you’re facing ongoing challenges, seeking legal guidance can help you understand your options and protect your child’s best interests. At N.P. Weiss Law, we’re here to support families through these difficult times with compassion and clarity.
Conclusion
Navigating the holidays after divorce or during shared custody can be challenging, but by prioritizing your child’s emotional needs, planning ahead, and handling conflicts with empathy, you can help create positive memories for your family. If you have questions about your legal options or need support, speaking with an experienced attorney who understands Ohio law can make all the difference.
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About the Author
Nicholas Weiss is the founder and supervising Attorney of N.P. Weiss Law, serving clients across Northeast Ohio in real estate, family law, and estate planning. He is committed to helping property owners, businesses, and families navigate legal challenges with clarity and confidence. Learn more about Nicholas Weiss.
This blog post is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Reading this post does not create an attorney-client relationship. For personalized guidance, please consult with a licensed Ohio attorney.
